March 9, 2008

In a perfect world, no one would need to apologize. But in an imperfect world apologizes are a necessity. Part of apologizing is admitting that you need to apologize. “I owe you an apology.” Is a good beginning. Then tell them why you are apologizing and admit that your behavior was wrong. Ask them to forgive you.

When you sincerely apologize, you will most likely receive forgiveness. When you fail to apologize you leave an emotional barrier between you and the other person. When is the last time you apologized to your spouse? Or, your child? If it has been more than a week, you probably owe someone an apology. Be brave, say the words: “I owe you and apology.” Time doesn’t heal hurts; apologies do.

Today's A Growing Marriage Daily content has been written by Dr. Gary Chapman and is based on the book The Five Languages of Apology by Dr. Gary Chapman and Dr. Jennifer Thomas. Published by Northfield Publishers, copyright 2006. Used by permission.